Hello,
This is not solved. I still get this kind of error with contact. One side is quadratic mesh while other is linear like below.

[1,3]<stdout>: Courbure ? F
[1,3]<stdout>: POINT A PROJETER : 9.5073317616778036E-002 6.0000000000000470E-003 3.3599462423808180E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: MAILLE QU8 8
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 1
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6130418478459892E-002 8.0736823820920633E-003 2.3367823756289475E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 2
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4828328146634971E-002 8.0716257065711408E-003 2.3357559624895698E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 3
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4830490464304570E-002 6.2289418968920502E-003 2.3610285678319611E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 4
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6110934440600149E-002 6.2383267486121469E-003 2.3647006479215513E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 5
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.5478955861498641E-002 8.0711137773372341E-003 2.3359766842106829E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 6
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4829320833744790E-002 7.1476927323832588E-003 2.3494772694809596E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 7
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.5468165488586373E-002 6.2291885293625001E-003 2.3619383088099678E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 8
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6123257665289424E-002 7.1541824359063729E-003 2.3514142910856819E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: KSI : -3.4440490634658136 3.4790681631305245
[1,3]<stdout>: ALPHA : 9.1642330592891952E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: Courbure ? F
[1,3]<stdout>: POINT A PROJETER : 9.5073317616778036E-002 6.0000000000000470E-003 3.3599462423808180E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: MAILLE QU8 8
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 1
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6130418478459892E-002 8.0736823820920633E-003 2.3367823756289475E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 2
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4828328146634971E-002 8.0716257065711408E-003 2.3357559624895698E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 3
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4830490464304570E-002 6.2289418968920502E-003 2.3610285678319611E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 4
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6110934440600149E-002 6.2383267486121469E-003 2.3647006479215513E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 5
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.5478955861498641E-002 8.0711137773372341E-003 2.3359766842106829E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 6
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4829320833744790E-002 7.1476927323832588E-003 2.3494772694809596E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 7
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.5468165488586373E-002 6.2291885293625001E-003 2.3619383088099678E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 8
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6123257665289424E-002 7.1541824359063729E-003 2.3514142910856819E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: KSI : -3.4440490634658136 3.4790681631305245
[1,3]<stdout>: ALPHA : 9.1642330592891952E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: Courbure ? F
[1,3]<stdout>: POINT A PROJETER : 9.5073317616778036E-002 6.0000000000000470E-003 3.3599462423808180E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: MAILLE QU8 8
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 1
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6130418478459892E-002 8.0736823820920633E-003 2.3367823756289475E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 2
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4828328146634971E-002 8.0716257065711408E-003 2.3357559624895698E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 3
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4830490464304570E-002 6.2289418968920502E-003 2.3610285678319611E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 4
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6110934440600149E-002 6.2383267486121469E-003 2.3647006479215513E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 5
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.5478955861498641E-002 8.0711137773372341E-003 2.3359766842106829E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 6
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4829320833744790E-002 7.1476927323832588E-003 2.3494772694809596E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 7
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.5468165488586373E-002 6.2291885293625001E-003 2.3619383088099678E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 8
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6123257665289424E-002 7.1541824359063729E-003 2.3514142910856819E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: KSI : -3.4440490634658136 3.4790681631305245
[1,3]<stdout>: ALPHA : 9.1642330592891952E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: Courbure ? F
[1,3]<stdout>: POINT A PROJETER : 9.5073317616778036E-002 6.0000000000000470E-003 3.3599462423808180E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: MAILLE QU8 8
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 1
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6130418478459892E-002 8.0736823820920633E-003 2.3367823756289475E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 2
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4828328146634971E-002 8.0716257065711408E-003 2.3357559624895698E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 3
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4830490464304570E-002 6.2289418968920502E-003 2.3610285678319611E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 4
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6110934440600149E-002 6.2383267486121469E-003 2.3647006479215513E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 5
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.5478955861498641E-002 8.0711137773372341E-003 2.3359766842106829E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 6
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4829320833744790E-002 7.1476927323832588E-003 2.3494772694809596E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 7
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.5468165488586373E-002 6.2291885293625001E-003 2.3619383088099678E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: NOEUD 8
[1,3]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6123257665289424E-002 7.1541824359063729E-003 2.3514142910856819E-002
[1,3]<stdout>: KSI : -3.4440490634658136 3.4790681631305245
[1,3]<stdout>: ALPHA : 9.1642330592891952E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: Courbure ? F
[1,2]<stdout>: POINT A PROJETER : 9.5073317616778036E-002 -5.9999999999999568E-003 3.3599462423808180E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: MAILLE QU8 8
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 1
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6110934471916654E-002 -6.2383284050202218E-003 2.3647006389278410E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 2
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4830490479352214E-002 -6.2289435620186146E-003 2.3610285757234849E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 3
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4828328141434742E-002 -8.0716273042020417E-003 2.3357559398609905E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 4
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6130418494800335E-002 -8.0736839664686672E-003 2.3367823505178919E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 5
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.5468165506043298E-002 -6.2291901915622373E-003 2.3619383079102212E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 6
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4829320833422132E-002 -7.1476943673451799E-003 2.3494772584544726E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 7
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.5478955870713977E-002 -8.0711153715588898E-003 2.3359766613296092E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 8
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6123257692228903E-002 -7.1541840738732106E-003 2.3514142762605030E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: KSI : -3.4435756297720617 -3.4788391611544949
[1,2]<stdout>: ALPHA : 9.1645695895647916E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: Courbure ? F
[1,2]<stdout>: POINT A PROJETER : 9.5073317616778036E-002 -5.9999999999999568E-003 3.3599462423808180E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: MAILLE QU8 8
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 1
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6110934471916654E-002 -6.2383284050202218E-003 2.3647006389278410E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 2
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4830490479352214E-002 -6.2289435620186146E-003 2.3610285757234849E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 3
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4828328141434742E-002 -8.0716273042020417E-003 2.3357559398609905E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 4
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6130418494800335E-002 -8.0736839664686672E-003 2.3367823505178919E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 5
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.5468165506043298E-002 -6.2291901915622373E-003 2.3619383079102212E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 6
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4829320833422132E-002 -7.1476943673451799E-003 2.3494772584544726E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 7
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.5478955870713977E-002 -8.0711153715588898E-003 2.3359766613296092E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 8
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6123257692228903E-002 -7.1541840738732106E-003 2.3514142762605030E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: KSI : -3.4435756297720617 -3.4788391611544949
[1,2]<stdout>: ALPHA : 9.1645695895647916E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: Courbure ? F
[1,2]<stdout>: POINT A PROJETER : 9.5073317616778036E-002 -5.9999999999999568E-003 3.3599462423808180E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: MAILLE QU8 8
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 1
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6110934471916654E-002 -6.2383284050202218E-003 2.3647006389278410E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 2
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4830490479352214E-002 -6.2289435620186146E-003 2.3610285757234849E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 3
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4828328141434742E-002 -8.0716273042020417E-003 2.3357559398609905E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 4
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6130418494800335E-002 -8.0736839664686672E-003 2.3367823505178919E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 5
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.5468165506043298E-002 -6.2291901915622373E-003 2.3619383079102212E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 6
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4829320833422132E-002 -7.1476943673451799E-003 2.3494772584544726E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 7
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.5478955870713977E-002 -8.0711153715588898E-003 2.3359766613296092E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 8
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6123257692228903E-002 -7.1541840738732106E-003 2.3514142762605030E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: KSI : -3.4435756297720617 -3.4788391611544949
[1,2]<stdout>: ALPHA : 9.1645695895647916E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: Courbure ? F
[1,2]<stdout>: POINT A PROJETER : 9.5073317616778036E-002 -5.9999999999999568E-003 3.3599462423808180E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: MAILLE QU8 8
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 1
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6110934471916654E-002 -6.2383284050202218E-003 2.3647006389278410E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 2
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4830490479352214E-002 -6.2289435620186146E-003 2.3610285757234849E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 3
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4828328141434742E-002 -8.0716273042020417E-003 2.3357559398609905E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 4
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6130418494800335E-002 -8.0736839664686672E-003 2.3367823505178919E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 5
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.5468165506043298E-002 -6.2291901915622373E-003 2.3619383079102212E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 6
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.4829320833422132E-002 -7.1476943673451799E-003 2.3494772584544726E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 7
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.5478955870713977E-002 -8.0711153715588898E-003 2.3359766613296092E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: NOEUD 8
[1,2]<stdout>: (X,Y,Z) 9.6123257692228903E-002 -7.1541840738732106E-003 2.3514142762605030E-002
[1,2]<stdout>: KSI : -3.4435756297720617 -3.4788391611544949
[1,2]<stdout>: ALPHA : 9.1645695895647916E-002
What is wrong with aster? The cylinder simply push onto tube. Calculix takes like 5 mins but aster never goes past 0.1s (with any formulation, 3D, 3D_SI, Standard, Penalisation, even LAC fails)
Regards
Anirudh